He Never Takes You Out.

As I said I would give you a few solutions to these bad relationships. Remember they are only my solutions. You may agree or not. I would love to hear your comments.

Solution to He never takes you out: Remember its my solutions.

He never takes you out,

Why do you think he never takes you out? First look at how long you have been in the relationship. Go back to the first times. Ask yourself, did he ever take you out on dates. If your answer to that question is no, then you now know why, he never takes you out on dates. You change this. Firstly, communicate with him. Talk to him and ask him why he never takes you out. Don’t turn it into an argument, as this is just the first stage of you getting what you want.

Don’t bring it up when he is in a bad mood. Wait until the children are in bed, or your both relaxing. Then ask the question in the nicest possible way you know how. You could ask him like this:

“Babe, can I ask you something? I don’t want you to get upset with me, or think that I’m fishing for an argument, as i'm not but why don’t you ever take me out?

Wait for his answer. Nine times out of ten the response will be something like,

“Oh I don’t now”

“What’s brought this on “?

“Who you been talking to”

“Where do you want to go”?

“You know we haven’t go any money”

“Oh here we go”

Once he has answered your question. Leave it there. Now its up to you to take the initiative and get what you want. Life isn’t about sitting down looking pretty, and expecting things to go our way, without any action from ourselves. You want your partner to take you out, and then you are going to have to get him to take you out. No more bitching and moaning get on with it. What’s the old saying, “Do unto others as you would want done unto you” Something like that. You get the gist of it. You need to take him out. You need to take action and plan that night or day out. The ball is in your court. Just because you are a woman, it doesn’t mean you cant wine and dine your man.

You plan that night out. Get the baby sitters if necessary. Book a table somewhere. Make sure its somewhere romantic. Don’t take him somewhere you wouldn’t want him to take you. Prepare this date with your man. Plan it properly. You don’t need to surprise him. Tell him “Darling i'm taking you out”. Tell him what time he needs to be ready, tell him to look sexy, as you are going to treat him.

This is where you are going to have to change the tables. You may even have to tell him a few little white lies, but these white lies, make them feel like men. Then you can get almost anything you want. Here it goes, little while lie number one. “Darling you make me so happy, I know we have had our ups and downs, but I love you and I want us to do special things together. You’re a good man darling and I don’t want to loose you”. This will make him feel like his the best thing since slice bread! Get ready go out for the meal. Use this time to sit and talk about your feelings. Talk about how you first met. Only talk about positive things. This meal, knows no negativity.

Once you have taken him on that date, take him on another, then another. Then you tell him, that is how you would love for him to treat you. Ask him after you have taken him out at least three times, when he is planning on taking you out?