Thursday 25 March 2010

How to keep your relationship

Keeping the romance within a relationship is not difficult if it is something you have always done.  No one wants a stale relationship. Everyone wants to be in love and feel loved. There are so many things we can do to keep the relationship alive, even when you think it is dying.  When you do get to a stage of thinking your relationship is dying why not step back and look at when you first met.  Remember how he made you feel, remember how he looked at you?  Well why not go back to basics and revive the relationship, do the things you did in the begining, the things which made him fall in love with you and you him.

Wear the clothes you used to wear, well at least the type and the style.  If you used to wear sexy fitted dresses and all he sees you in now are baggy tracksuits and the same old jeans, he may have stopped fancying you.  You dont want your partner to stop fancying you.  Go out of your way and dress up for him.  If you have piled on the pounds, think about releasing them.  We cant expect our men not to have wandering eyes when we dont look apealing to his eyes anymore.

Do not get complacent in your relationship, dont allow your partner to look at other women and wish you looked that way or acted that way, or was as romantic as that other person seems.  The same goes with you too, you could be having roaming eyes because your partner have let himself go.  We must make the effort in our relationships and not expect everything to stay the same as it was when we first met, if we have changed a lot!

It all goes with taking care of ourselves as women.  We must make the effort for ourselves.  Treat yourself to some pampering, go shopping and treat yourself to a new outfit a bag and a pair of shoes.  Stop stressing about bills all the time.  Make yourself look beautiful and give him a surprise.

1 comment:

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