If he tells you that he does not love you and he will never marry you, what would you do? Surprisingly there are many women out there right now in this very situation. The man that they have fallen in love with and have spent so many years of their life with, has told them that, he does not want to marry them. He has even told them that he does plan on marrying in the future, just not to her!
You would think that was a good enough reason for any woman to run out of there and find a new life. Unfortunately, most women in this situation don't get out fast enough. Their self esteem and self confidence are so low at this stage that they feel its best for them to stay where they are. They are probably scared of being alone or starting all over again. Well I say what is the use in staying in something where there is no love at all. You are giving out all this love and for what?
Self esteem and self confidence can come back. It just needs to be worked upon. Staying in a relationship where there is no love is not a way to get your self esteem back as most of us know. For those of you who don't know, self esteem is just a feeling, self confidence is just a feeling. These are feelings we can nurture and grow again. Just the same as it was knocked it can be mended. It takes time.
You have to start believing in yourself again. You have to look at who you are and what you are about. Forget about the situation you are in for one minute and take some time out for yourself and re discover who you are.
See your self in the future of who you want to be, how you want to feel, what you want to be doing with yourself, the type of man you want. Keep all those things in mind in a positive way. Keep focusing on the new you and watch it develop.
Do whatever it takes for you to get a new life and your confidence back!