Valentines Day

Don't stress, yes it's officially the most romantic day of the year.  Great so lets all divert our attentions to this day and have romance! Yes have the romance for the day but lets have it everyday, not just on Valentines day.  Valentines day can end up like xmas day if your not careful.  You can go and overspend.  I believe if you are normally romantic with your partner then you don't have to go all out on "Valentines Day".

My husband and I are generally romantic towards each other.  Yes we will make sure that we do something different on that day only because it is "Valentines Day".  I love romance but I wont be forced into the consumer part of it.  My husband and I will do what we want to do.  I refuse to spend a romantic night in a hotel for the double the price.  We do that anyway for half the cost on a normal night.  Like I said I love romance, but when we say not when the world says it has to be.

Our Valentines night will be spent eating a pizza in the car with a small bottle of champagne somewhere usually by a beech or the country, with some nice smooth music.  We find this very romantic. So if you don't buy into the whole over spending on Valentines day then do something simple.  This is my choice by the way. Personally our anniversaries are more special to me as those are our days and not the worlds.

If you don't have a valentine just plan for one for next year.  Think about how you want them to look, act and treat you.  Sleep with that on your mind, think about it during the day.  Keep doing this for at least 31 days.  Eventually they will appear.

Happy Valentine.

x

Dont just give up

I thought I would send this quick note letting you know how beautiful you women are. You must believe how great you are and you must not give up on relationships. I am hearing from some of my readers some real
negativity. I am hearing how some of you don't want relationships
anymore. You have given up finding mr right.
We must never give up on ourselves. Yes relationships do turn sour but it does not mean there is no hope for us in the future. just because that
relationship has not worked don't see all relationships as your old one.
Leave the old one there in the past where it belongs.
If you go around believing that all relationships are bad then you will
only get what you believe, and thats a bad relationship. Go into a new
relationship with good positive thoughts and not bad ones. Don't go
rushing into a relationship either soon after you have ended a negative
one. Give yourself time to breath. Time to get over the old one.


If you are already in a relationship and you are having problems, deal with
them. Don't see it as the end of the world. Turn the negativity into
a positive. If you sit down long enough and look into it you will find
some positivity out of it. Go back to the beginning and remember the
good times. Reenact them.

Don't live on negativity

Listen to my audio cd. There are some good tips there, that can help
along the way.

Woman get real with your Man