Serioulsy now, why on earth would you want to take back anyone who left you for someone else? Dont you have any self respect for yourself? You are worth so much more than a hand me down. Leave him there with the woman he left your for and watch him come back begging for forgiveness. You dont need to go out and get him. If he left out of cheating and just wanting someting new leave him to get on with it. He will soon come running back if you believe you are worth more.......... Really though, would you take him back?
I dont beleive you should. Anyman who leaves you for another woman is not worth taking back. Imagine he left you feeling unloved, hurt, rejected and with a broken heart, why on earth would you want to take him back. He will only do it again,this time he may not leave, but he will see many other women behind your back. Especially now that you have taken him back. He will see you as an easy target, a pushover. Leave him there, let them have him!
He left you at home wondering where he was, he left you wondering who was calling his phone, who was making him smile........... remember he even made love to her and left you there wanting. He probably spent your money on her taking her on dates, wining and dining her. I say your money because he was your love therefore he spent on her what he should have spent on you. You dont need him back in your life to make you feel like crap again. Your Mr Right is just around the corner waiting for you. If you allow him to come in then he will. If you spend all your time thinking about how to get him back, then you will lose the true one who is waiting for you.
Friday 26 March 2010
Thursday 25 March 2010
How to keep your relationship
Keeping the romance within a relationship is not difficult if it is something you have always done. No one wants a stale relationship. Everyone wants to be in love and feel loved. There are so many things we can do to keep the relationship alive, even when you think it is dying. When you do get to a stage of thinking your relationship is dying why not step back and look at when you first met. Remember how he made you feel, remember how he looked at you? Well why not go back to basics and revive the relationship, do the things you did in the begining, the things which made him fall in love with you and you him.
Wear the clothes you used to wear, well at least the type and the style. If you used to wear sexy fitted dresses and all he sees you in now are baggy tracksuits and the same old jeans, he may have stopped fancying you. You dont want your partner to stop fancying you. Go out of your way and dress up for him. If you have piled on the pounds, think about releasing them. We cant expect our men not to have wandering eyes when we dont look apealing to his eyes anymore.
Do not get complacent in your relationship, dont allow your partner to look at other women and wish you looked that way or acted that way, or was as romantic as that other person seems. The same goes with you too, you could be having roaming eyes because your partner have let himself go. We must make the effort in our relationships and not expect everything to stay the same as it was when we first met, if we have changed a lot!
It all goes with taking care of ourselves as women. We must make the effort for ourselves. Treat yourself to some pampering, go shopping and treat yourself to a new outfit a bag and a pair of shoes. Stop stressing about bills all the time. Make yourself look beautiful and give him a surprise.
Wear the clothes you used to wear, well at least the type and the style. If you used to wear sexy fitted dresses and all he sees you in now are baggy tracksuits and the same old jeans, he may have stopped fancying you. You dont want your partner to stop fancying you. Go out of your way and dress up for him. If you have piled on the pounds, think about releasing them. We cant expect our men not to have wandering eyes when we dont look apealing to his eyes anymore.
Do not get complacent in your relationship, dont allow your partner to look at other women and wish you looked that way or acted that way, or was as romantic as that other person seems. The same goes with you too, you could be having roaming eyes because your partner have let himself go. We must make the effort in our relationships and not expect everything to stay the same as it was when we first met, if we have changed a lot!
It all goes with taking care of ourselves as women. We must make the effort for ourselves. Treat yourself to some pampering, go shopping and treat yourself to a new outfit a bag and a pair of shoes. Stop stressing about bills all the time. Make yourself look beautiful and give him a surprise.
Friday 5 March 2010
should you leave?
You stay with him because its what you are used to. You stay with him because you are afraid to move on. You stay with him simply because you are not sure if you are doing the right thing. You stay with him because you are waiting for the right time. You stay with him because you need to get yourself sorted out before you move on, as you don't want too many distractions in your life.
Sometimes we stay with people all for the wrong reasons. Its not for love and it should be, it shouldn't be for all the other reasons, like, he makes life easier for me financially, Im scared to be on my own, my children need him around, I would hate to start a new relationship, better the devil you know. Yes we know about all of those excuses, but do you love him? does he love you?
I don't believe in cheating at all, but lately I have been listening to some women speaking and I can actually see why they would cheat, although I don't believe in it and I would not condone it. The way I see it, if you are with someone for any other reason other than love, then I belive there is room for you to stray. Every woman wants to feel loved and adored. Every woman wants to feel like a little princess. We may not speak about it, but deep down we want to be treated like the little princess in his life. Of course there is a lot more to any relationship than just love. Of course it goes deeper we want our men to be men also. We want our man to be able to fix the tap if its leaking or, carry the heavy shopping in doors for example.
But love is something that we all need to feel and give. If you are not feeling this then you may end up straying. The way I see it is, if you don't feel it, then don't stay in it. What if you stray and your straying becomes a habit, what if you end up having two relationships on the go, then what? When I say don't stray, there is no point you being with someone out of habit. If you meet someone new and you do fall in love, then obviously there is room for you to love someone else, whilst you are already in a relationship. I would say the other relationship is dead.
People can make mistakes, maybe you feel as though you are in love with this new person because he gives you what your partner is not giving you in doors. If this is the case, how will you feel once you stop seeing this new one, will you feel guilty, will you confess all? Further more will your original partner be able to give you what he hasn't been giving you why you have had to stray in the first place?
very very difficult and I don't envy anyone in this position. If your relationship is dead and your man is not what you want. I would say leave rather than staying there and being unhappy enough for you to cheat.
The other man may be the man of your dreams!
Sometimes we stay with people all for the wrong reasons. Its not for love and it should be, it shouldn't be for all the other reasons, like, he makes life easier for me financially, Im scared to be on my own, my children need him around, I would hate to start a new relationship, better the devil you know. Yes we know about all of those excuses, but do you love him? does he love you?
I don't believe in cheating at all, but lately I have been listening to some women speaking and I can actually see why they would cheat, although I don't believe in it and I would not condone it. The way I see it, if you are with someone for any other reason other than love, then I belive there is room for you to stray. Every woman wants to feel loved and adored. Every woman wants to feel like a little princess. We may not speak about it, but deep down we want to be treated like the little princess in his life. Of course there is a lot more to any relationship than just love. Of course it goes deeper we want our men to be men also. We want our man to be able to fix the tap if its leaking or, carry the heavy shopping in doors for example.
But love is something that we all need to feel and give. If you are not feeling this then you may end up straying. The way I see it is, if you don't feel it, then don't stay in it. What if you stray and your straying becomes a habit, what if you end up having two relationships on the go, then what? When I say don't stray, there is no point you being with someone out of habit. If you meet someone new and you do fall in love, then obviously there is room for you to love someone else, whilst you are already in a relationship. I would say the other relationship is dead.
People can make mistakes, maybe you feel as though you are in love with this new person because he gives you what your partner is not giving you in doors. If this is the case, how will you feel once you stop seeing this new one, will you feel guilty, will you confess all? Further more will your original partner be able to give you what he hasn't been giving you why you have had to stray in the first place?
very very difficult and I don't envy anyone in this position. If your relationship is dead and your man is not what you want. I would say leave rather than staying there and being unhappy enough for you to cheat.
The other man may be the man of your dreams!
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