I have taken my time to record a cd all about our relationships. I have used what I have learned in the past to record this. If you want solutions to why your man is treating you a certain way. Or even why you feel how you do in any relationship. Then treat yourself to my cd. Woman get real with your Man . I am very harsh in the way I put things across. I don't believe in prettying things up. There are too many women out there suffering in their relationships and they don't need to. Find out the solutions to why your relationship is going the way it is.
Find out why your man has stopped taking you out. Find out why he no longer compliments you. Its all there the raw hard facts.
Order the cd, once it comes, brace yourself for a real bumpy ride.
Saturday 30 January 2010
Tuesday 19 January 2010
Don't just give up.
If you are looking for a new relationship and you feel like giving up. Please do not resort to lowering your standards. Whatever you want in any relationship you can find it and get it. You just got to want it enough and take action for it. There is a Prince Charming out there for all of us, but if we give up looking or waiting and decide to take the next one that walks through the door then you are doomed for a failed relationship.
Have more patience and wait for him, he will come. Its your dream and you must never give up on it. Do not give up on your dreams. If anyone tells you that you are aiming too high take no notice of them. You will get what you ask for and what you dream of, as long as you keep dreaming about him and expecting him to come. I dreamed about the man I wanted until I eventually got him. I had many people telling me my chest was too high, in other words I should not set my sights too high. Well I did set them high, as high as I wanted and then guess what? yes I got him. So do what I did and don't give up. He will come to you. don't give up take action and be who you want to be and attract the man you want. Think about the man last thing at night and first thing in the morning. Think about how you want him to look, speak, walk, dress the lot.
Trust that he will come and he will.
Have more patience and wait for him, he will come. Its your dream and you must never give up on it. Do not give up on your dreams. If anyone tells you that you are aiming too high take no notice of them. You will get what you ask for and what you dream of, as long as you keep dreaming about him and expecting him to come. I dreamed about the man I wanted until I eventually got him. I had many people telling me my chest was too high, in other words I should not set my sights too high. Well I did set them high, as high as I wanted and then guess what? yes I got him. So do what I did and don't give up. He will come to you. don't give up take action and be who you want to be and attract the man you want. Think about the man last thing at night and first thing in the morning. Think about how you want him to look, speak, walk, dress the lot.
Trust that he will come and he will.
Tuesday 12 January 2010
Time Out
We must take time out at times. Now not time out of our relationships this time. This time Im talking about time out from the every day hassle and bustle of work, business life. We must take time out for our relationships otherwise it will be doomed for failure. How are you meant to get close with your partner if you are so career minded. Yes its great you want to be independent but what about your relationship?
You go up that ladder girl, but don't forget to keep him in mind. Don't make him feel less of a man because you are talking about your great future prospects, take some time out to spend quality time with him. Don't bore him with the me me me me me conversations. Leave it alone sometimes, he does acknowledge it and he does love you. He just doesn't want to hear it all the time. We as women can forget at times, men are like babies and need just as much attention as we do, positive loving caring attention. Focus on him for a whole week. Go out of your way to do just for him, awaken the love within him for you. Do this just for a week and watch the difference in his love to you.
We women want to be independent and strong but we forget about him along the way. Our men need to feel like men. You can be career minded and independent with him in mind, remember he needs to feel like a man. If you stop making him feel like a man, he will stop making you feel like the princess that you are.
So for this week, pamper your man.
You go up that ladder girl, but don't forget to keep him in mind. Don't make him feel less of a man because you are talking about your great future prospects, take some time out to spend quality time with him. Don't bore him with the me me me me me conversations. Leave it alone sometimes, he does acknowledge it and he does love you. He just doesn't want to hear it all the time. We as women can forget at times, men are like babies and need just as much attention as we do, positive loving caring attention. Focus on him for a whole week. Go out of your way to do just for him, awaken the love within him for you. Do this just for a week and watch the difference in his love to you.
We women want to be independent and strong but we forget about him along the way. Our men need to feel like men. You can be career minded and independent with him in mind, remember he needs to feel like a man. If you stop making him feel like a man, he will stop making you feel like the princess that you are.
So for this week, pamper your man.
Monday 4 January 2010
New Relationships
I thought I would touch on this subject as new relationships are not always easy. You know that one is for you but its not easy. A friend of mine met a new guy they really like each other and get on really well. She has only known him for a month so not long. They live a few hours away from each other so only get to see each other on the weekends for now. Thats normal nothing wrong with that. When you meet someone new and you just start out in a relationship you wont know much about each other. This is why we ask each other questions to find out more about each other. We want to know something about their past,why they broke up with their ex etc. This way we can put the puzzle of our new partner together.
You have gotten to know each other the best you can in such a short space of time. Naturally the more you are with each other and talk to each other on the phone you will get to know each other more. Meeting the friends the family etc. Don't expect perfection and don't expect that person to drop everything and change all their ways and lifestyle to suit you. This is a mistake people can make too early on in relationships.
My friend heard rumors about this new guy that she had met that he was a player, that he was seeing other women. My friend being the way she was did not like what she heard and made up her mind not to continue seeing this guy. Now I spoke to her and told her that she should not rush out of the relationship so fast. If she has heard that he is seeing other women she has to allow him to get on with his life the way she met him until they get to know each other. No one is going to drop their lives and commit 100% in any relationship immediately (well at least most people don't) . If you think they should do that for you,then you have a long way to go. Im not saying that the guy should continue seeing other women forever or for much longer. Just because we meet someone it doesn't mean that he is the one straight away. We have to wait and give it time to take its course. Maybe he does not want to commit to you and he is just testing the waters, therefore he will stop dating the other women once he is serious about his life or you.
Just because he is a player now, does not mean he will stay a player. He just needs to find the right person to settle down with. I don't believe in cheating or players but what I do believe is that if a man is dating women and he has not committed him self to anyone at that particular moment, then you will have a choice to continue to date this guy or stop. If you meet someone its up to you to ask him if he is seeing anyone, he can then let you know yes or no, serious or not serious, just dating. He could be searching for his Mrs Right. Naturally if he is dating there has to be a limit on how long he is dating other women for!
You have gotten to know each other the best you can in such a short space of time. Naturally the more you are with each other and talk to each other on the phone you will get to know each other more. Meeting the friends the family etc. Don't expect perfection and don't expect that person to drop everything and change all their ways and lifestyle to suit you. This is a mistake people can make too early on in relationships.
My friend heard rumors about this new guy that she had met that he was a player, that he was seeing other women. My friend being the way she was did not like what she heard and made up her mind not to continue seeing this guy. Now I spoke to her and told her that she should not rush out of the relationship so fast. If she has heard that he is seeing other women she has to allow him to get on with his life the way she met him until they get to know each other. No one is going to drop their lives and commit 100% in any relationship immediately (well at least most people don't) . If you think they should do that for you,then you have a long way to go. Im not saying that the guy should continue seeing other women forever or for much longer. Just because we meet someone it doesn't mean that he is the one straight away. We have to wait and give it time to take its course. Maybe he does not want to commit to you and he is just testing the waters, therefore he will stop dating the other women once he is serious about his life or you.
Just because he is a player now, does not mean he will stay a player. He just needs to find the right person to settle down with. I don't believe in cheating or players but what I do believe is that if a man is dating women and he has not committed him self to anyone at that particular moment, then you will have a choice to continue to date this guy or stop. If you meet someone its up to you to ask him if he is seeing anyone, he can then let you know yes or no, serious or not serious, just dating. He could be searching for his Mrs Right. Naturally if he is dating there has to be a limit on how long he is dating other women for!
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